Designing clear intentions for you and as a family can have a powerful impact on motivation, optimism, connection, and self-worth.

Creating annual intentions is a way to focus on the deliberateness of what we plan to experience and feel. Our intentions provide a course of action that we plan to follow, thereby preparing us to respond and to create. What are you intentionally creating for 2015?

Setting intentions with children is a fun, easy, and often artistic process that may take a bit of practice.

First, talk to your children about moments that feel good as a family. If they are old enough, allow them to write these moments down. List at least three or four. Include photographs for more reflection and fun discussions. Some families have reported moments such as playing in the neighborhood, conversations in the car, walking to school, bedtime routines, cooking together and even the absence of conflict such as sibling arguing and tension over homework.

yearly intentionsThen, reflect on the theme of what feels good within your family. Try to connect it to an emotion the whole family can agree on and be excited about experiencing. It might be helpful to provide a short list of ideas such as: love, playfulness, gratitude, or compassion. If children can identify a desired outcome, for example feeling connected, secure, playful, funny, or curious, then all you have to do is show them what causes the emotion. Some ideas include everyone being patient, expressing gratitude for each other, having empathy for one another, spending quality time together in nature, or creating a project together. The emotions experienced in these moments can be some of the intentions for the year. How about: “We will be kind with each other”; “We will express our gratitude before bed”; or “We will be patient with our self and those who help us.”

Here is the best part, help your children illustrate what the family intentions look like. Provide art materials, alphabet stickers, and photos to assist them in illustrating the family intentions in the form of an art piece. Poster and foam boards made great canvases for intention boards. Be sure to include written quotes said by the family when the intentions are experienced. For example, “I am grateful that mommy took me to gymnastics”; “I feel happy when I help bake”; “Games are more fun when we take turns”; or “When we all do our jobs in our home, we have more fun together.”yealy intenions with kids

Finally, find a spot in the home to display your family’s intention for 2015. This may become one of your favorite art pieces in the house and a great discussion piece for visiting guests. Encourage your children to tell the story about its development and its meaning. This fun activity motivates and deepens the connection within a family. It is a meaningful annual tradition for preparing and planning a positive new year.